Dear ZS,
My sister and I have reminded her that health stuff can be genetic.

My mom told me tonight that she mostly didn't want her oldest sister (who is a nurse) or her twin brother (who sees alternative drs) to nag her about the surgeon's credentials, about advice, about stuff to worry about.

My sister was upset/angry/worked up on the phone tonight. She says that if she ends up taking care of one or both of them, they are going to have to learn to communicate better. I told her that they might not change. And we don't know what the future holds anyway.

Mari