How old is this doctor? What he did sounds like something my grandfather would do! **Let's not upset the little lady - we men will just discuss her "fragile condition" behind her back and she'll be none the wiser.** Give me a break! What would he have done if you didn't have a husband - or one that went with you to the appointments? Did he honestly not think that Tim would NOT have mentioned this to you? Good grief - with doctors like this we certainly DO need anxiety meds!

Before my next appointment with this baboon I would make a list of questions and put him on the spot - ask him point blank what he was thinking when he "slipped the note" to your hubby. Or better yet - have Tim ask him and let the doc know that you didn't appreciate the breach of trust.

Or. . . . . .just let all of us know when and where your next appointment is and we'll all meet you there and give him a piece of our mind (s) - collectively I bet we have at least one complete mind to work with!!