I'm glad you've found us--though, of course, I'm sorry for the situations that have led you to find us.
We have a grat number of specific boards here for particular issues--here are tow I figure you might be intersted in posting on (considerable empathy and lots of informed people on each):
The Spinal Disorders forum:
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum22.html
And our Chronic Pain forum:
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/fo...sprune=-1&f=10