nohope


Sadly people hide secrets from their loved ones... often very well


You do not have to justify to anyone why you divorced... the reasons were between you and your husband. his family/friends must accept that

Be strong in your own mind that the reasons were valid..........Stuff ..........the on lookers they were not there.. they never saw... they never experienced what you did...

Their annimosity is their own guilt, that they probably saw a problem and never raised it with your husband... hence forth in their guilt or lack of intervention they blame someone else.......its called passing the buck

you are doing great nohope..............now concentrate on you and not proving you were right ........................Sadly your husband is no longer here... and when he passed away so did all the issues... if his family want to apportion blame.. let themm...they however are decieving themselves and they know it.

onwards and upwards nohope... baby steps.

Davd