Oh dear Gazelle. What a terrible ordeal to have to go through.

I've never had one myself, but as an RN I certainly assisted with plenty over the years. I got to know which doctor's knew what they were doing, and which ones didn't...usually by the distress they put their patients through, as well as the excuses they made for their own failings.

I can't change what happened, but I do send you hugs, and hope you feel better soon.