LOL Corky - it's not often you'll find a surgeon with a good bedside manner. It's not really their area because they rarely maintain any relationships with patients. They are "precision artists," and sometimes arrogant about their work.
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So, this might just be an indication he's a GOOD surgeon. I hope your relationship with the oncologist is more friendly and personable.
I keep you and your son in my daily prayers.