Thank you all very much -

The neuro called back and said to take him to the ER - we had to go by the house to get his wallet and he finally went to the bathroom!! It had been 16 hours since he went.

so we called the neuro back and they said he didn't have to go to the ER but he had to make an appointment with a urologist.

I just hope he continues to be able to empty his bladder (if he really did empty it completely - he was terrified to have a cathedar) and we don't have to go to the ER at midnight tonight