this was just posted on the headlines news here:

http://www.news.com.au/adelaidenow/s...005962,00.html

it's grief cindy. we feel grief at the loss of a friendship.

i think you have done what you can for now. it's up to the other person. but you also can't put a time line of forgiveness. that person needs to heal too.

letting them know that you will keep the door open..for however long is really good step to your own healing.

you never know what is going on in that person's life that hasn't ben shared either.

i'm still your friend.