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Old 02-12-2008, 03:54 PM
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Originally Posted by AfterMyNap View Post
Please tell me about how you cope when forgiveness is refused you. How do you handle the cascade of emotions when your heartfelt, honest apology is blatantly rejected? How do you sort things out and reclaim your sensibility? Any tips or links would be much appreciated. Thanks.
To err is human, to forgive is devine. If the person in question cannot forgive you, then it's a worse situation for them. It's hard to carry around a grudge or bitterness. You have to look at it from that perspective.

It may be that someday the person will forgive you, but you need to forgive yourself and move on to other things. If forgiveness ever comes, welcome it with open arms.
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