my niece had a permie born 3 months early.they lived at the Ronald McDonald house. he is now 3 years old and still gets shots for his lungs. gets ill easy with colds and coughs and the P word.so I know all to well the stress and worries that mound on top of the ones who really care. especially if they can not be there. I send healing vibs and pray they both recover and bounce back without any problems. and prayers for you and rest of family. may you all find a happy ending with good health of the little ones... and the stresses and worrying be washed away by the family love you share together.
Peace
BMW