Nohope, I don't think this is a healthy thing for you to do at all. It's way too early for you to be dealing with something like this. You will wind up retraumatizing yourself. It's OK to distract yourself with other things to take the "edge" off but to have to deal with someone's else horrendous loss, is way too much. It won't make you a bad person if you don't help this person, it's just the smart thing to do. Take care of yourself first. Otherwise, it could send you down another road that you don't want to go down.

~Hope