well, it depends on what kind of sz and where the focus of the sz are. You can't really give a blanket statement of childhood E symptoms.

There are many times learning issues associated with type of E and also as a side effect of medications used to treat them.

www.efa.org is a good place to start for info on various types of sz. Does she remember you having any sz activity when you were a kid? Maybe having her read at the Answerplace at EFA is a good place for her start understanding about different kinds of E, and maybe then she will relate it to your childhood.