Glad you found us Volada!
I know others here will have a ton of experience to share and you can get some advice at the NMSS website about working, who to tell, etc....Discrimination is rampant in the work place.
I don't like the sound of etc, etc either! Maybe you can negotiate some tele-commuting and get your home PC on the network? If you need some parking arraingments, maybe a handicapped placard for the rear view mirror so you can have front and center parking? Anyway...good luck with all that!
I'd dump the pumps and go with sneakers (LOL)....or here, I just wear snow boots everywhere....they are so big and I clod around town in them and even at the stores
The kids of course, give us every reason to have joy!!