Hi I'm 47 yrs old and a mother of 3 and a grandmother of 7 got hurt in 2004 and had back surg. in 2005 and it failed. I don't know where to go from here the doctor that i have now is pretty much through his hands up and said i quit. he has given me an option spinal cord stimulator with less then 50% chance it will help with the pain i don't want them to cut on me if its not going to work, im at my wits end please some advise.