I think I'd seriously consider filing a formal complaint - maybe he is on drugs or something - sounds like he was waaayyy out of line and very unprofessional.

You can check his name on your state website - medical board section
see if there have been any restrictions on him.

I really think we all need to speak up and take appropriate action when drs act like that one did.

I sure wouldn't feel right about having to pay him for that sort of "treatment".