...it's like when I was 19 and in psychotherapy. My therapist who I had been with for 9 mo, was out for 6 mo because she stuck her hand under her lawnmower. (She came back less 3 fingers.) She asked me if I wanted to pick up where we left off. I had to tell her, "No, it's too difficult to re-hash what all has happened since then and I'll just stick with seeing your replacement if that's OK."
OBT does not have old threads available... otherwise I would go back there. I may lurk there, but this will be my main support group for TOS.
I did support OBT with $$ when they had the server crash in 2005, and recall them having an excess of donations.
Anne