Alffe, I don't know about prenup yet. My investments are all tied up anyway. Even I can't get in them and I have a WILL. We haven't talked about thoses things yet. He has a business in the UK that did belong to his Father and he is head of it, for he has no brothers to carry it on. His mom is 85 yrs old and can't do it. We will not be living together unmarried! I am a Christian and have set my foot down on that, period. He does want me to be Mother to his daugther. Mom is taking care of her now. He says she is very good girl. She also makes a salary from his electronic business.

I don't know when we will be gettting married just yet. Can't make plans at this time. His family already know about me and approve. Thanks for the advise tho. Does any of you know if I can get a pention from him, He is not old enough to retire yet? I know I will lose the one I am getting now from my past hubby. I got something to think about. I do have a IRA created since hubby died feeding me too.