I think relationships don't work if people don't share the same values. You might be able to find people who share your values by joining some volunteering organization. I am so sure you need to be nurtured now that it might be hard to do volunteering..working hands on...to people who are actually needy...
When you are lonely and hang out with people who don't share your values, you are probably left feeling even more empty.....
Do you like animals? if so how about working for a shelter?
Do you like politics? how about working for one of the campaigns?
Do you feel comfortable with geriatric population? etc
You could also probably look on Craig's list in your area
Bobby