Hi Paperdoll,
I'm so sorry for your loss ((((hugs)))). I recently had a loss too, but posted about it here:
http://forums.braintalk2.org/showthread.php?t=2379
I think it's worse when it's someone young who has a lot of life ahead of them. Sounds like between the drywall at work and your loss, you need to take a sick day or a couple of sick days.
Claire