Amen sister! I told my mom yesterday when she was going on and on about the doctor not releasing her to go back to work that she needs to call my older brother. She asked me why? I said "because you told him before surgery that you didn't know what you needed and would let him know after surgery." She said she didn't remember that. I then told her that it's only fair and (I think that hurt her feelings) that I think the other kids should also help out. YOU NEVER WIN WITH FAMILY WHEN YOU LOAN MONEY TO THEM. That is my new quote..haha I love my mom and will help her but only after her other three kids start pitching in.