Keri,
I am sorry you are dealing with the incompetence of all parties involved.
You shouldn't have to go through this. I wish it could be as simple for you as possible. I was under the impression that things had improved. I know when I started, I had to do some major screaming to get things rolling, but that was a year ago! I'd forgotten what it was like to get the people at MSActivesource going. Your post reminded me and it makes me very angry that this is still happening.