Hi Keely
Like Erin, I am a crocheter and a sci-fi nut. I don't have spasticity in my fingers but I have other issues. They feel numb and hypersensitive and fat like big ol sausages. In those respects they are hard to control.

I crochet to relax, but the feel of the yarn can be so annoying. I do have tendenitis sx in my right arm also. I get a heavy tightness that can be most annoying. I am left handed, but crochet right handed, so it is an issue.

I've always wished I could play piano, so keep doing that. The mandolin how cool and unusual that is. You keep strumming girl! How fun to have met your hubby "at work". Such a romantic story. I hope it goes on forever.

Another thing. I lived in Colo (Denver) for several years and just loved it everyday. The beauty is spectacular and wish for it everyday. I'm now back in OH w/family which I missed alot while there.

Listen to the little voice inside you. Not the one controlled by fear, but the deeper truer one. I'm sure you'll make the right decision about Ty.