I think there's possibly a few things going on here, and one has to do with psychological dependance on the stroller.

Think about it . . . you've had a stroller in front of you for the last 10 - 12 yrs. I know how dependant I got on it and I only dealt with that on and off for about 5 yrs. Like the huge/handy diaper bag, it becomes a piece of us, like another arm or something.

Since you walk "very well most of the time", an electric wheelchair seems like a drastic expense for the few times you might need it (like going to the zoo, theme parks, etc.). You have 7 children to entertain though, so it's not like you can avoid these outings all the time.

You have a whole baseball-team-sized-family, and some of them (including your husband) are strong enough to push you in a manual chair, for the odd occasions you might need it. That is what we do on those occasions, or I might rent a scooter if one is available.

If it works out that you need to be pushed around a lot more then you are thinking right now, your husband will get tired of that routine pretty quick.

First though, I think it is worthwhile to try to take baby steps in ditching the stroller. I don't know how often you are using it (probably not to pop into the school to pick up the kids, or a few groceries), but maybe on those longer trips where you need to carry more things. Give the kids more responsibility for looking after their own cups and coats, and try to enjoy the freedom of not having that crutch (for as long as you can).

Cherie