Melody - let me know how hubby does, okay? My dd has that too, so that might help her as well.

I can say, she also has excema, and her sclap was also a wreck. My hair dresser suggested olive oil and an egg for that. She used to do that 3x a week, then 2x. Then her scalp was not total cradle cap (at age 12, lol).

She had just started a vegan diet - she is still on it, and that helped her more than any meds or creams. We also watch every thing that touches her skin.

She does eat a ton of olive oil, but we never thought to rub it on her.