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Location: Tampa Bay Region, Florida
Posts: 456
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Quote:
Originally Posted by greenjeans
Some people cannot be helped. Pedophiles are at the top of that list, but I could elaborate. Lock em' up and throw away the key. Even God can't help some of these people until the day they stand before him.
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People CAN be helped. Only YOU can
make the decision; no one else but YOU and YOU alone.
You have the decision of wanting to move
forward and desiring to seek treatment or
resist it.
There have been what Medical Personnel
have deemed 'impossible' or 'complex',
but it was all because the individual wanted
to be changed and took up the challenged
to receive the treatment and be helped and
the end result was positive.
It's all in the mindset of the individual.
It's true that the older you are, the more
tendencies you become "set in your ways"
and more "programmed" to what you think,
do, et cetera. So that it's easier to treat a
younger individual than it is for an older
individual, because the younger individual's
minds are still fresh and opened.
However; the major key is - if one keeps
themselves from being "set in their ways"
they have a chance. And you can change,
this includes habits, breaking the cycle(s)
of defeat in your lifestyle (things that grabs
hold of, or holds you down), and while the
old adage of "You can't teach a old dog new
tricks" - I don't buy it.
I believe you can; I've seen it done repetitiously,
not just in others, but in my own life as well.
As long as we keep APATHY out of our lifestyle
and keep making changes; and often from
permitting that mind set from setting into
our system, we all have a chance. It also keeps
us in a more positive attitude, motivation and
determination becomes as easy as blinking your
eyes, and depression doesn't have much room
because your mind set is so busy on other issues.
I find that people who are in apathy and set in
their ways are very high and more prone to
depression and sickness to every little thing that
comes by (this is not to imply to those who have
illness, diseases, disorders, and such the like; for
I have neurological and cardiac issues myself, but
rather - I'm referring to individuals who are 100%
healthy and having NO HEALTH problems), and they
are highly negative in their thought process, attitude,
and everything around them. You listen to them for
3 minutes - negative, negative and more negativism.
Not one positive word is uttered.
When you observe their lifestyle: Set in their ways,
same old, same old. It never changes, always
predictable. You can almost time everything according
to them and not need a watch - ever! That's a good
side is, they're never late, they're never early, always
on time.
However, the bad side is - they tend to put the cart
before the horse. Their mindset is so perverted and
frequently distorted, they move under presumption
and assumption. They often assume or presume that
someone is in reference to them (when they are not).
They are easily hurt, offended, and believes the world
is up against them.
Thus, it begins to harbor resentment towards people,
then grows to bitterness, then strife, discord, hostility,
hate, and even violence if it gets that extreme. It's
a process and it doesn't happen overnight, it grows,
just like you plant a seed in the ground, eventually,
it will bear fruit and manifest itself. They end up being
loners and keep much to themselves.
Many of them often end up one trouble after another
with the Law, because they do not know how to do
anything, all because their mindset isn't clarified and
programmed (a terminology I like to use) properly.
It can be done whether via counseling: Clergy/Rabbi,
Psychologist/Psychiatrist - or via Hospitalization.
But it all goes back to square one: The individual will
want to want help. Compliance and Cooperation from
the individual is needed. You can't have an individual
who is haphazardly half in and half out; either you're
all in or you're all out. 100% Compliance and Coopera-
tion is an absolute, or otherwise its not going to be
productive for that individual's own well being overall.
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Sharon
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