Ada,
...trying to lend my assistance with the issues that you mentioned about anxiety. Which meds are you unable to take? Are you talking strictly about anti-anxiety drugs that you are unable to take? Let me know which ones you have taken that don't work, and I can easily offer you some alternative meds to try and some good dosage recommendations to recommend to your doctor. If you have a good doctor, this can be easily fixed and decrease your stress dramatically.