Oh, Brain, you care because you're good people. It's human to care, and despite the zoo in which you live, you are really one of us.

It is a dilemma for sure, and you're right, there is no easy answer. I won't bore you with the usual lecture about how many couples wait for a chance at adoption, but I am curious about whether it is something she has/would consider. Many couples can give her a financial boost during the pregnancy if the circumstances are right.

I wish I knew the answer, I'd give it to you for free. Is there a story in all this for you to give the world?