[QUOTE=doydie;240644]I am also one of those that let my job define me and it took me several years to finish my grieving of that.QUOTE]

YOU HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD WITH THIS STATEMENT! WOW!!! OUCH! THE TRUTH HURTS!!!! THERE MUST BE MORE TO US THAN OUR CAREER! RIGHT??? YOU HAVE GIVEN ME A HUGE "AH-HA" MOMENT!
THANK YOU!

Also, UNION is great! My husband who is dealing with cancer was (always will be) a part of a brotherhood. We have gotten SO MANY checks $ from his brothers to help us out during this time! Plus, the insurance will always be there. We are truly blessed!