oh, man!
that's a rotten series of events!
I wish I knew the "right" thing to say, to help, but I don't.
I *do* wanna ask though...
why don't you want another surgery?
if something needs repaired, wouldn't you *want* it fixed?
or was the first surgery so awful, you don't want to be opened up again?

and hang in there, Bunny.