Ya know, if its not one thing, its another! I'm so sorry you both have to endure this. The things that life is throwing ALL of us lately is just too much sometimes. Kick us when we're down huh?
I'm going to go count my blessings and see if I can't find a reason to be happy. There must be light at the end of the tunnel aye?
I WON'T use one of those "hated" phrases today...just empty words!
BUT: Sending some good vibes your way and pray the days ahead improve and an unexpected good comes from all the suffering.