diana, for a little er, um, "therapeutic session" .......

you can hop over and visit our little friend: Empathy Man.

http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/sh...ht=Empathy+Man

you might find it entertaining to inflict debilitating fatigue upon him, sit back, and laugh.

it gets all your frustrations out, while you wait, and hope that your bf learns to understand.

my hubby *usually* doesn't press me to do things, when I say "I'm tired"

but sometimes I wish he could just be me for a few days.

then, he'd REALLY "get it"