Try visiting the Brain Aneurysm site: bafound.org They have a wealth of information available to family members and survivors also their own forum.
Just remember that healing takes a loooooong time. Have a lot of patience.
Just being their will be a lot of help. Make sure she knows that you love her and will be there for her. My unruptured aneurysm was clipped 5 years ago. It took close to a 1 1/2 years before I had my energy back. Still now there are things that I'm affected by. Katie