interesting u bring that up, because the difference between deb and I meeting is me copying her name from a chat room or not, was in a divorce chat room on aol many moons ago and those tend to scroll rather fast with a lot of folks in them, and one person asked for help ironically on how to copy and paste, I hesitated, then rescrolled the room and copied debs screen name and the rest is history, had i waited ten maybe twenty seconds longer her name would of scrolled off, and we would not of met, because she had already left the room, that is how i met my present wife, we built a long distance long term friendship and it blossomed and bloomed

things do happen for a reason