Well in these pic's (BTW a lot of them were awful) it looks like shingles more than anything else.

Oh and just to add when I got the 1st outbreak I was not sexual active, I know you do not HAVE to be to get herpes but just wanted to add that. I was only around the 3 year olds but if I hugs them while standing my thigh was about there face level and being in Florida I wore shorts so I had skin to skin contact with that area.