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Originally Posted by Nikko
One thing that bothers me, there will be no closure really to my situation, except divorce down the road if I can afford it. Even then he probably won't show. Maybe it's all a blessing, I have to think that way. I do not miss him, or lonely for him, just remembering the good times hurt, because it could of been different, no it couldn't with his rages.:
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Dear Nikko,
Keep posting and keep talking to us.
I'm not sick of your situation. It is where you are right now.
Re closure: I'm not sure that we can always get closure when we want it. Maybe time is only thing that helps us let go. Or maybe you can make your own closure ceremony/rituals/activities. I would think that the best thing to do is to be around other people as much as you like and to develop new ways of spending your time......
Good for you for doing your home work and going into court on Monday feeling prepared and in control. You've done everything you can. Everything else is out of your hands -- nothing to worry about now.
Find something nice to do for yourself this weekend.
Mari