Hello Julie,
Welcome to the site from another MSer.
You really do have a lot on your plate right now, don't you?
I wish I could give you lots of wonderful advice, but I can't! I don't know the right words to say.
I wish I could tell you not to worry about those parents who are giving you and your son a bad time, but you'll worry anyway!
I guess I'm not much use at all, but I want you to know that I'm thinking of you, and sending you some hugs.
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