Thank you both so much!
It really helps to get your feedback. I feel better after all everyone has said since I got home. I want to applaud one of our members who stuck up for me in some ways, too. Everyone has assured me that J was way out of line and yeah...I suspect jealousy and low self-esteem have a lot to do with it--sad, but not my prob. Already been through that, thanks.
I hope she can resolve whatever her issues are and that she comes to realize that she allowed herself to look like a complete biatch for doing what she did, but I won't hold my breath.
Sad...
LIZARD, who's gettin' over it