Ignorant family members, very sick mom, trip out of state, hmmmm??? Cheryl, are you sure we aren't living parallel lives ?? I'm getting on a plane to PA today and I'll be there for who knows how long. My brother and sil are major pains in the **** !! In fact I'm gonna go start my own thread coz I need to vent a bit before I hit the road, er, sky. Sorry you have to deal with all of this carp Cheryl, I feel for ya. I really do.