Thanks everyone. I wasn't sure I had done the right thing, but at the time it was. He was trying to get sympathy for his wife. And frankly my sis and I were fed up. That's not what yesterday was about...I removed him from the room (he was extremely reluctant to leave) and we had it out.

I just found out that he is meeting Mom and I for lunch today. This should be very interesting.

Think I will jot down a few of the websites I discovered last night about PN...