it wasn't a bother, Broken.

one of the biggest problems most of us have with MS is that a lot of our symptoms are INVISIBLE.

I was really GLAD that Cherie changed your post, so I could read it.

lol, I break up my posts into single sentences, because otherwise, I couldn't even read my OWN posts!

and many of us get so used to the various invisible stuff going on with our bodies, that we FORGET to tell those who LOVE us when we're exhausted, in pain, and can't move around or see easily.

or we just get tired of explaining all the things bedeviling us, and somehow expect people to just KNOW and understand.

since your sister has had MS for 17 years, maybe she's the same way I am, tired, hurting, numb, burning, tingling, head-achey, blurry vision (I've had MS for 20 years now).

good luck working things out with your sister, and sorry you've fallen on hard times.