I was glad Cherie broke the thread up - I cannot read large groups of text like that.
Brokenfriend, she didn't do it to make you upset - or mad - she did it for the majority of us MSers who have trouble with our vision.
Please don't take it the wrong way and leave. I think you've gotten some great advice here - like Cherie said unfortunately we cannot choose our family!
Hope you're feeling better.....