Thanks everyone for sharing your insight and experiences.

I am going to go to this one on Thursday. I will see how it goes, and take the good, some bad, and leave the rest behind. Maybe there will be someone there that I can click with. There is also another new person going (as told to me by the leader), so I am sure they are just as scared...

I also thought this would be good for DH as he has not been taking in as much info as I have.

We shall see. I do LOVE it here, and if the IRL doesn't work out (and even if it does) I shall reamin here as well Boy are y'all in trouble =)

Thanks again!