That is so true. I found that out when first my Mom died and then especially so when my Dad died. I now have ex-brothers and ex-sisters-in-law I could not believe what has gone on Well, the way I've come to think is that I don't need to either see or hear from them again. I do not and did not need all the stress. It certainly did not do my health any good. I know some people think that's harsh but until it happens to them, they don't understand. And it happens all too often sad to say. I certainly never thought such a thing could happen. Thanks for listening