Oh Sandy, what an ordeal! My heart goes out to you and your entire family. I hope you can get things sorted out and find a solution that your Mom will be happy with.
My Mom had Alzheimer's and it was so frightening when she would become angry for no reason. My Mom NEVER raised her voice and the first time I heard her use a curse word I nearly came unglued. That was just not her. So we knew something was wrong.
Maybe they can get her on Aricept - I've heard that's a good Alzheimer's drug if you can get on it early.
Ya'll are in my prayers.....here's a