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Originally Posted by beautytransforming
Ack, I hate when that happens also!! Sorry for all you have gone through. As I said in another post, I have had a pretty calm life. I guess that has given me the ability to have the personality I have, which is rely on my self, and allow others to do so, cause I can't rely on others... I know, that sounds off the wall. I don't know where my distrust in the human race came from... I am one of those who waits for the other shoe to drop also, and like you said - by living in the now (which is what I am learning to do) I find I don't care if the other shoe drops, cause I am finding out I am strong enough to pick it up, pair them off, and put them (the shoes) back on! I am sure you are just as strong!
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Yes, I am definitely strong given all the stuff I've made it through. I just thought the universe finally owed me a break!! I mean really......ya know? Like I said in another post this was rough for me because 1) it came out of nowhere and was a shocking surprise 2) I had only been married 3 months--nice wedding present, huh? 3) my career is taking off finally after years of hard work 4) and I was about to turn 40. Anyhow, all the stuff I have survived has always made me tough and I've had to rely on myself. But you are right that with the MS we will have to allow ourselves to ask for help if we need it.