Moral question:

My hubby, kids and I are going to San Diego for a week.

My dad's family is in California (Los Angeles area). We were going to leave early Saturday and stop by for a few hours before going to airport. (yes we are departing from LAX).

Is that rude to only spend so little time with them? My G. aunt had asked if we can come the day before and stay with her...so we have more time. (Sleeping on floor) hELP!!!!!

I dont really know them. Last time I saw them I was 2? (37 years ago). My parents are both deceased. I only have my Aunt (dad's sister) in Ma. and my brother and his family back home in Jersey.

Dont think my hubby is very excited about this. But he has dragged me to various family dis functions.

BTW: I has MS with lots of bone pain recently. My hubby has a hernia. My 4 year old has mild autism....plus he and his brothers are very high strung.

Thanks for the input!!!!

~L~