I don't know about 'when it's your time'. If it's gonna happen it's gonna happen as painful as that is for everyone! But what I do believe is that we should make the best of it that we can, endure as much as we can, and learn as much as we can and try to benefit from that learning.

(((BMW))) Bless your heart.

The pain of children losing someone. *sigh Thank God for the counselors at grade school when my little girl needed it so many years ago.