Connie,
Good luck! I'll be sending good thoughts your way while I'm at my 1st Ty appt!
You are wise to get a 2nd opinion if you have any questions and it's normal to go through a period of disbelief when hearing bad news. However, MS is not the worst thing ever.
Since I don't know your story, I don't know if you've had MRIs. If I can search for previous posts, I will. Your MySpace page shows that you've definitely got the determination and strength to take care of yourself and your family. You seem really nice, too.