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Old 04-21-2008, 03:26 PM
TraceyW TraceyW is offline
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Originally Posted by finz View Post
Hi Tracey ! Welcome, although sorry you had to find us

I want to comment on your above quote. I really would not let the concern that a WC claim might hurt your future employment. First, I don't think that your previous employer can share that information on a reference check (Obviously, I have no idea about employment laws in the UK, I'm just going on general impression. Secondly, I think your current level of disability even though you are only 26 is exactly why you need to look into if your previous employment caused or contributed to your TOS. I don't think that you can afford not to pursue this. If your pain and symptoms grow over time, as it has for many of us, what employment could you see yourself being able to do when you're 50 or 60 ? What about if you get pregnant and have a child ? Perhaps you already have children, I'm just assuming that you would have mentioned difficulty caring for them if you did have kids. Mine are 12 and 13 and have to help take care of me....doing my laundry, housework, etc How awful would it be to have TOS and have to carry around a 30 to 40 pound toddler. Driving is difficult for me now, if I had to get a baby or small child into a carseat, I would never get to go anywhere ! So........my point is don't worry about offending your previous employer......do whatever you need to do to protect yourself and your future.

Most of us understand completely the difficulty you are having just trying to get a proper diagnosis, nevermind treatment plan. How can doctors not believe in a documented medical condition just because they are not knowledgable about it ? Ugh !!!! The belittling experience of having them imply that it is all in our heads, the accusitory tone when they deny reasonable pain management..........don't get me going !

Does the PT that unofficially diagnosed you have any suggestions about knowledgable doctors ?

hiya,
many thanks for your comments, you are completely right in what you say about workers comp...there is a different attitude in the UK about claiming, but enough members on here have inspired me to get a consultation to test the waters re a claim. my employers did have to make adjustments to my workplace and sent me to an occ therapist who said i probably wouldnt be able to work full time in the long term. so im sure i do have a case!

i do worry about the future - kids etc, even holding my friends toddlers is difficult enough, and as much as i love playing with them i am shattered and aching at the end of it.

the pt i saw moved on to a different hospital, i didnt get any details from her as didnt realise the significance of what she said to me, or the problems i would be faced with further down the line....

what type of tos do you suffer?
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