Oh honey, you are NOT a loser!!! I was glad in that respect to get the dx, cause I thought I was just dumb and lazy most of the time. I never had energy to do anything. I used to apologize to DH cause I was a bad housekeeper... I'd tell him I was having a bad day, but could never explain it. How many 32 year olds use "bad day" to explain 5 of 7 days a week... I thought I was just the laziest person on the earth. Now I feel a bit vindicated...

Don't ever think of yourself that way. Do what you have to do to keep you healthy, and do the important things. Dishes can wait a day or so before they stink...LOL